Wednesday, February 17, 2010

May I have this dance?



Socializing can make a huge difference to a stylist trying to rebuild their books and is something I personally need to do more of. Now that isn't to say that I advocate being pushy and pleading others to sit in your chair, but finding a group with similar interests can lead to a natural curiosity about your skills. Eventually, someone takes the plunge and decides to give you a go. The rest will soon follow suit.


3 years ago, due to a complicated pregnancy I was bed-ridden for 3 months and lost a large majority of my clientele. Returning to part time hours did not help me rebuild either,but I enjoyed every minute with my little guy and it was the price I was willing to pay. Now I have joined the Clive and Co. Salon, and extended my hours. I am ready to get serious about rebuilding.


All of this has caused me to reflect on my busiest times in my career and I think it is linked to when I was going out dancing. It wasn't as though I begged others to sit in my chair, but the shared interests and a familiar face can be soothing when others are looking for a new stylist. I know I miss dancing terribly and have spent evenings perusing youtube watching all the jitterbug footage that I can find. Some mornings I find myself brushing my teeth and practicing triple steps unconsciously.


So, I think it's time to dust off the old dance shoes and hit the floor. I hope to masacre that rug while looking my most adorable. And if anyone asks, "Hey, how did you get your hair to do that?" I will happily hand them a card!


For more information on lindy hop and jitterbug, please visit the lovely Rockabilly Holly for one of the most informative breakdowns that I have come across:

4 comments:

  1. Networking is a difficult skill to master. How do you get it just right, not to pushy, not pushy enough? You seem to have a good plan though!
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  3. Thanks! It's something hairstylist's always keep in mind. Our best advertisement though is word of mouth. The only problem is that it's not very fast (takes 2 years to build solid) and higher end salons don't see as much walk-in traffic.
    I've learned to be patient, always travel with cards in hand,and make sure my friends are well coiffed.
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  4. I just saw this. Thanks so much for linking to my blog!! I think dancing is not only an excellent way to network its a great way to de-stress. I know when I go too long without dancing I get moody. And I'm not a hairdresser but one thing I know is that most of the dancers have no clue how to do their hair in cute vintage styles. So its really smart of you to hand out cards to them. I know if I lived in your area I'd go to you!!
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